Far from the heart?

Author

Mara Bande
September 17, 2024

16th of September ‘24

Far from the eyes, far from the heart?

Dear Friend,

Over the past year, I've found myself wanting to write this message many times, but now I realize it can no longer wait. Nine years ago, when I left my home country, I thought I understood the weight of that decision. But the reality of leaving behind people, relationships, and the familiar hits harder when things get tough.

Many of you might be going through something similar. Whether it's aging parents, grandparents, or someone close to you facing health challenges—how do we cope when we're miles away? How do we process grief when we can't lean on our loved ones for comfort?

In the time I’ve been away, I’ve lost so many—some old and fragile, others young and full of life. Not being able to return, to be present for the rituals, to participate in the grieving process, leaves us with an emotional distance we’re left to navigate on our own. Loss is never easy, but being far away seems to stretch it out, prolonging the closure we desperately seek until we can finally return and face the reality head-on.

If you've lost someone from afar, my heart is with you. And if you're living in fear of losing someone, I feel that deeply too. How do you deal with this?

Mara, lighting up a candle 🕯️

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💡Always keep in mind…

Remember to seek support!

It can’t be always all peachy, sometimes things get tough. When that happens, remember to share your feelings with trusted friends, family, or a support group. Talking about your problems, loss, and feelings can help ease the burden. If you’re more private, consider journaling as a way to express your emotions. Professional help, such as counseling or therapy, can also provide a safe space to navigate this sort of stuff as well!

🍃Have you…

🎬 Watch: Bleach

Haven’t really done much other than rewatching Bleach lately, so… anime heads, this one is for you. The story follows Ichigo Kurosaki, a teenager who gains the powers of a Soul Reaper after accidentally obtaining them from another Soul Reaper, Rukia Kuchiki. With these powers, Ichigo is tasked with defending humans from evil spirits called Hollows and guiding deceased souls to the afterlife. It’s a very beloved show, and I’m a huge fan!

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Focusing on the present moment can help manage overwhelming emotions.

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