The one about horror stories

28th of October ‘24

Looking for a job can be scary

Greetings my dear,

It’s the last week of October, so I have to get all the spooooookyness out of my system. As a person, I’m the type that rolls with the punches so overall nothing really phases me. But in the past year, I’ve had quite a few recruitment horror stories of my own.

The first one that comes to mind was last May. I interviewed for a marketing position at a huge company with offices all over the world. There, I was asked not once - but twice!! whether I have any kids or I plan to have any in the future. NOW, in case you don’t know, this is super illegal! Even though I pointed out how out of line and illegal that question is, I was invited to the following stage, and a different person asked once again. Oh, how I love being a woman!

The second one is a little milder, everything legal but still oddly unprofessional. I applied to a fintech startup, and I was super excited because startups are the place to be for me. Once I got to the last phase, I found out that the meeting wasn’t with anyone at the company. It was with a friend of the founder who happened to be in marketing herself. It was a super-odd experience that felt more like a school test than a job interview. (I didn’t get an offer :D)

Do you know what’s the scariest thing of all? That I have a million more stories but they are so common no one is shocked anymore!

Mara, spooked and scared 🎃

Find me on Instagram as @amarenabandivan

💡Always keep in mind…

Report, report, report

Now, I know it goes without saying. If something messed up and illegal happens to you you should talk with someone about it and make sure you’re safe and it doesn’t happen again. When those things are work-related, you should rely on your union. They will provide free legal advice and if needed representation as well.

You’re not part of a union yet? Wtf…what are you waiting for!

🍃Have you…

📚 Read: Perfume: The Story of a Murderer by Patrick Süskind

I’m back with an old book but a goldie. And it’s disturbing and unsettling 😇 A perfect rec for Halloween week but not an obvious one. Perfume follows Jean-Baptiste Grenouille, a man with a freakishly sharp sense of smell but no personal scent. Set in 18th-century France, it’s a dark tale of his obsession with capturing the perfect fragrance, which he believes can control people. To get it, he starts murdering young women, hoping their scents will help him craft his ultimate perfume. It’s a twisted story of obsession, identity, and desire for power.

✹ Events

Halloween Movie Night

31.10. at 18:00 - Startup Sauna

Join wednesday. and Aaltoes for a cozy Halloween movie night as we screen The Menu 🍽️ We’ve got the popcorn fully loaded and the snacks ready, so all you need to bring is yourself (and maybe a friend to grab onto when things get spooky).

Redefining Career Paths: From Corporate to Startups

28.10. at 18:00 - Startup Sauna

👔 Wondering if there’s more to life than the corporate career track? 🤔 This is your sign to learn more! 🌱

​Join us on 28.10. at 6 PM for an inspiring panel discussion, where CEMS alumni share their journeys from pivoting from consulting to startups! 🦄

How to land a startup job.

6.11. at 17:45 - Maria 01
Join us on November 6th for How to Land a Startup Job, a panel with talent strategist Sofia Pohls (Finders Seekers) and career counselor Lidiia Salo (Get Hired in Finland) 💫 Our panelists will cover what startups really look for in candidates, how to get noticed in hidden recruitment circles, and ways to showcase your strengths even without a tech background. Expect insider tips, essential skills (hint: adaptability!), and a few startup myths to bust

wednesday. + STRIVE Startup Crawl

13.11. at 16:00 - all around Helsinki

We’re bringing you the ultimate startup adventure, this time exclusively for women + non-binary peeps. This is your chance to connect with 10+ startups and discover career opportunities like never before!

Here’s how it goes: Kick things off with a tour of three exciting startups, then join us for a chill afterword gathering where you'll meet the rest of the crawl gang and swap networking tips 💫

✧That moment when ✧

⌛This Week’s Progress at Hei Dingo

This is a special moment for Hei Dingo.

We are honored to share that we don’t do it alone either. Morten & Jim have officially joined the Hei Dingo team to guide us through the big challenge of the pivot and more importantly help us build the best platform for professional women who want to understand how to make their next career decision in their current location or maybe on the other side of the world.

What better guidance than from two experts who have done it themselves over the years and have achieved it successfully?

Keep an eye on our Instagram or LinkedIn to learn a little more about them and their role with us as advisors.

☁️Friendly reminder

Don’t let fear paralyze you. Anxiety and terror can be petrifying, but if you find the streght to react and move forward you’ll survive yet another time.

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